How do you find the perfect relationship? What relationship are you looking for.
Everything we do is a relationship in itself. I am having a relationship with my chair, my desk, my computer and you this very moment but what does that mean.Touching, smelling, listening and seeing are senses in motion as we impart our knowledge and have a relationship with you.The most important relationship has been the one with myself. Without that there is nothing, nothing at all.How do I view that relationship??? One needs to think very deeply and try to associate feelings with thoughts. I praise, I show confidence, I share knowledge, I chastise and punish, I carry guilt and anger, I have doubt and low self-esteem all of which only myself knows so is this not indeed a relationship with oneself.To improve life's outcomes this relationship must come first on the scale of importance and one that needs action now to change thought patterns and better my relationship for more positive future outcomes. Respect, love, honesty, support, giving, comfort, Patience & above all acceptance of the unique person we are.
Put the love we need to sustain our relationship with ourselves first and than others.
